This is the second half of my responses to the reports for our July 3 Weigh-In. The first half is linked below.
Mark's Replies for July 3 - Part 1kirstykay - Huzzah! Way to go, Kirsty!
kirstykay wrote:the scale is not a direct correlation to behavior, although, over time it definitely is. So slow and steady wins the race.
That is a very keen observation! We shouldn't overvalue any single point of data from the scale vs. consistently practicing the recommended behaviors over the duration. Keep doing an excellent job!
SGarcia - Focusing on building the recommended behaviors into habits is an effective approach. I can imagine that working in food services presents a particularly challenging environment to navigate - you are wise to be mindful of not letting yourself become overly hungry.
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You are right that those commercial sauces often don't meet the MWL guidelines - here are some
MWL acceptable sauce recipes that might be of help.
Hope410 - Hang in there! Calorie rich processed food rarely fails to have an effect.
Hope410 wrote:I am neither happy or proud of this, but I do recognize how this happened and believe I am back on track after the wake up weight gain.
That is great, you are finishing this week and starting the next with a positive and proactive mindset!
wildgoose -
What an EXCELLENT post! I especially want to highlight two particularly important pieces -
wildgoose wrote:I found that if I was asking "is this OK?" it usually meant that I was very attached to what I was asking about. I ended up not being able to use it in moderation, and it kept me on a never-ending craving cycle. This may not be the case for you, but be ruthlessly honest with yourself here.
wildgoose wrote:The longer you keep up really good compliance, the easier it gets. Cheating all the time leads to cravings and a generally harder road, in addition to slower weight loss.
simon - Kudos! I am one of this forum's most epic salad lovers, so I can totally relate! Just do your best to keep reducing added salt, remembering that a sprinkle at the table on the surface of your food is acceptable under the guidelines. Cheers!
BeadLady - In case you missed it,
Jeff offered some excellent and thorough direction for you.
Tobinterri - If you are ever needing to find your own posts, just click on your username and then click "search user's posts" - that will give you a list of all your posts from most recent to oldest. Give yourself a little time practicing the guidelines, continue doing the best you can, and know that excellent adherence to the MWL 10-Point Checklist will produce results eventually.
KathleenK - There is no wrong time for a fresh start! I'm glad you're feeling focused and your day went well!
MaryE - Welcome! I'm glad you decided to take the plunge and join! It can be especially challenging to make these changes "on our own" and in an environment replete with temptations; under those circumstances it is even more important to be sure that whenever you are hungry, you eat of the recommended foods in the fashion outlined by the MWL 10-Point Checklist.
cmurphy - Not only does almond creamer include nuts, but it is also a form of liquid calories - so definitely worth eliminating. As you say goodbye to that creamer, almond yogurt and other non adherent foods, be kind to yourself and perhaps make a special effort to eat whichever starches, non-starchy vegetables and fruits you most enjoy. Enjoying the food is important. Here is
Jeff's full rundown on coffee, which is worth reading to get a clear picture.
JeffN wrote:While coffee is not a health food and I don't recommend it, as I said in my
Coffee vs Tea post..
Out of the two drinks, tea is clearly the better "choice" if you were looking to choose between the two. If you were to choose coffee, keep the intake below 2-3 6 oz cups a day, have it black, and make sure it is paper filtered.
jkcook - Let me offer congratulations for the 20 lbs you've lost already! As you adjust to eliminating those higher fat plant foods, be mindful to satisfy any cravings with an adequate proportion of starches - for me, potatoes are great for this, as they are easy to have cooked and waiting in the fridge for ready access. When practicing the 50/50 guideline, portion control is usually less of an issue, just eat until you are comfortably full, however many servings that involves. Thanks for the useful advice you offered for dining out -
jkcook wrote: can you go to your favorite restaurant or two during a non-busy time and talk to them about creating a couple of dishes that are compliant? I have several restaurants around here are trained to fix my food without oil. I always tip a little bit extra, for their trouble. It’s worth a try.
I'd add that one could also request they prepare dishes without added salt or sugar, as well.
Jeff shows an example of a card to hand to a server to describe an appropriate meal.
Judy_Bell - It is definitely the case that the last few pounds are often the most recalcitrant, and typically require a strict attention to the MWL guidelines. The checklist points you toward the areas where further efforts will be rewarded. I'm pretty confident that if you can just get that first exercise session in as soon as you can (whatever form it may take), it will be much easier to continue doing so.
lauradwight - Thanks for contributing! Isn't it interesting how we always seem to "stress eat" calorie rich, higher fat, or processed foods - people "stress eating" celery or carrots seems to be a rarity, right? Give yourself a big pat on the back for diligently following the MWL plan for 2 weeks!! Keep it up!
VivianS - Kudos! Eliminating those remaining troublesome items will definitely make a difference. If using a bowl works for you, that isn't a problem, just do your best to "eyeball" an equal visual volume of starches to non-starchy vegetables in your bowl (same as on a plate).
Jeff's general discussion of Omega 3 fatty acids includes some information on flaxseed and may be worth a read. It sounds like one of the most important things upon which to focus (in addition to eliminating those troublesome foods) is being sure to eat an adequate amount of starch at each meal, filling half your plate (by visual volume) with non-starchy vegetables and 50% (by visual volume) with minimally processed starches.
Sherr61 - 2.8 lbs is a nice loss! Perhaps when you work up a powerful appetite with that hard labor, you might sate it with starches, vegetables and fruits - enjoy whatever favorites are among the adherent options. Jeff offers some helpful tips for
Dining Out, when you must. As you say, we can face each day anew!
Rbw - Good for you! It sounds like your first day was a success! When you are faced with those cravings, you can beat them by choosing healthy foods, including starches, and take heart in the fact that they will pass and fade eventually. One day at a time, doing your best will get you there in the end!
Precursoragirl - Have you made a start using the
MWL 10-Point Checklist?
Kathy62 - Congratulations on all the progress you've made already! MWL absolutely works!
Amberlina - Attentive focus on the MWL 10-Point Checklist and diligent effort at executing those fundamentals is absolutely the way to proceed!
vegyluvver - Your journal is in exactly the correct section.
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I'm glad you feel you are doing well with the checklist. Let me know how you like your cooked, then refrigerated oatmeal - I actually love that, it reminds me of pudding!
sandraa325 - Hello! Doing our very best is all any of us can do! The longer you can adhere to the program, the easier it will be!
inverts99 - Glad you are looking forward to the program! Now is a great time to get started!
Jan Daley - Hi! Be sure to review the
introduction for all the important information, and get started!
MelMoore - Congratulations on attaining that milestone! Keep up your very diligent efforts, you seem to be doing great!
ukeplayer - Those can indeed be challenging changes to make - keep doing your best practicing the recommended behaviors and that effort will be rewarded!
AnnieB20 - Welcome! You have posted your weigh-in correctly! Be sure to review the
introduction; have you made a start following the MWL 10-Point Checklist?
laura_delao - That is a nice loss, and you have made a great start tackling the checklist! Onward toward getting physically active and eliminating those few lingering calorie dense foods!
RiceBurner - 75% can indeed be a big improvement from one's previous patterns, and with 25% remaining you know exactly where to direct your efforts!
NatalieJ - Hopefully that new scale will serve you well! Have you made a start on the MWL 10-Point Checklist?
jenniferhopeful_ - I'm so sorry this has been a difficult year for you so far; I'm sure that doesn't make things any easier. The best way to avoid those "cheats" is to make sure whenever you are hungry, you eat of the recommended foods, in the manner described by the guidelines. Be gentle with yourself and do the best you can, aiming for continuing progress.
Pann - I'm curious to see how you put MWL into action for yourself, too.
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Way to go eliminating meat and wine, now to tackle those remaining animal foods. Loving the food is an important piece of the puzzle!
EmmaLW - Hello! Have you gotten going with the MWL 10-Point Checklist?
avanburen - Welcome!
Zoey - Thanks for your wish of good luck! I needed it!
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Way to go hitting those checkpoints and continuing your progress! That feedback from the scale makes for a nice reward!
Dennis h - Glad to have you "aboard!" How are you doing with the recommended behaviors?
briea - 100% proves to be an easier path than 90% for many of us. Oatmeal and fruit is always a popular choice for breakfast, but really any starch you like with an equal visual volume of non-starchy vegetables (and / or fruits) can serve as the main course for any meal of the day, keeping in mind the totality of the recommendations.
CJean - That is a substantial loss! Give yourself a big
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for so diligently curating your environment to best support your efforts! That can be a big change, so very well done!
amyd60 - It is totally fine to have any variation of an adherent meal at whatever time of day, so if you would like oatmeal and fruit for dinner, have that. Recognize, too, that setbacks inevitably happen, they are part of the process of learning how to make this work - try to be kind with yourself, learn from mistakes and let them go, and make your very next choice the best you can. The only way you can "mess it all up" is by giving up completely, and as long as you have a future ahead, there is the opportunity to improve and grow.
chaz01 - Another pound down, Chuck! I hope the back half of this year holds as much progress as the front - enjoy your weekend!
Mickeysmin - You are counted!
Cdbrailsford - Kudos! How has it been going for you with the MWL 10-Point Checklist?
Whitehawk - Congrats on that significant loss! Are you finding that any aspect of the MWL guidelines is presenting a challenge to you?
bblair - It sounds like you are off to a good start, if the week seemed great! Dining Out in a way that meets the guidelines is definitely tough, and perhaps easier if avoided completely; Jeff has some tips for
Dining Out that could help.
Lucas - Another pound down! Nice! It seems like your week was a pretty successful one, considering you were traveling; I imagine it will be a relief to get back to your normal routine, though.
marb - Kudos! It appears you are making exciting progress! Just keep eating, whenever you are hungry, in the recommended manner and your appetite will work itself out.
geributter - Nice loss! You are doing great and well on your way! Keep up that diligent work.
Gigieve - That is thrilling, for sure! The MWL program works, when you put in the work, so good for you.
Growing a Pear - The principles of MWL are the best for getting that scale "rolling" in the desired direction! It appears that you have made impressive progress following the guidelines. The recommendation would be to ditch the Clif Bar, for all the reasons Jeff discusses
here -
JeffN wrote:A Cliff Bar is not the best choice & a very unhealthy product.
There is nothing magic in it other than the calories, fat, sugars, etc. Protein is a poor source of energy. The 2 main and primary sources of energy are carbohydrates & fat, not protein. Depending on which cliff bar you consume it is most likely contributing most of its calories from fat & sugars and not protein anyway.
If you feel like you need to eat, and eating in the recommended fashion until comfortably full doesn't sate that feeling, it would seem you could be struggling with Pleasure Trap driven cravings - if you can refrain from indulging those cravings for enough time they will fade away, but it takes time. Be sure, too, that you include adequate starch in each meal throughout the day, as too much calorie dilution without starch can sometimes spur those cravings. Dr. Doug Lisle's webinar on the
Cram Circuit could potentially be of use in approaching the issue you describe.
Moonlight - Woot! Another pound bites the dust! Getting back on track when we face setbacks is an important skill to employ. Try not to think of those occasional lapses as failures (and "kick over the table" as a consequence); they are signals that you have some areas where you need to fortify your strategies and make sure everything is in place to support your adherence. Keep those steady improvements rolling!
laurag - Way to go! 147! Would putting into practice some type of "hard cutoff" for the evening seem helpful?
Drew* - What a blessing that you and your siblings were able to spend that time with your father. Good work putting Jeff's simple recipes to work for you and staying active! You are correct to observe that a few exceptions can often lead to many more than a few. When you think of where you were at in April, try not to lament, know that you can make it there again, and further, with diligent efforts over time. The practice of the principles produces the results.
francnm - Kudos for your excellent efforts! If you behaved consistently in accordance with the checklist, you did great! Try not to sweat the small stuff.
JeffN wrote:While coffee is not a health food and I don't recommend it, as I said in my
Coffee vs Tea post..
Out of the two drinks, tea is clearly the better "choice" if you were looking to choose between the two.
If you were to choose coffee, keep the intake below 2-3 6 oz cups a day, have it black, and make sure it is paper filtered.
MDavidson - Fantastic efforts! You succeeded in all the points and guidelines - that is excellent work!
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If you have any questions about the guidelines, or roadblocks arise, feel free to post here for clarification and support.
KDoyler - You've been added to the group.
Belana - Holding steady is better than some alternatives! You know from experience how stubbornly those last few pounds can hang on, but you also know the behaviors that lead to losing them. Do your best to navigate the coming challenges with consideration and preparation. Happy travels!
Cinderoli - Going forward, please be sure to post your report in this thread -
July 2020 MWL Weigh-In Group. Kudos on your nice loss and for doing such an excellent job putting the recommended behaviors into action! Keep it up!
MartiB - For next week, be careful you post your report in this thread -
July 2020 MWL Weigh-In Group. Do the best you can to practice the recommended behaviors, and that "C" will be an "A" before you know it!
Tyler - Great work!
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