ncyg46 wrote:I will be more complient
There is no such thing as "more compliant."
You're either compliant or you are not.
I too see all the little things you mention in your posts as adding up to much more than you seem to believe you are consuming. It's not just the beer.
You seem like a very kind and giving lady but sometimes you just have to say "no" to other people. If you find the making of bread to be a temptation, as you admit, then your friends can make their own bread.
Friends will understand. If they don't, they ain't your friends!
Also, when I hear people say "I walk my dog" I know that in many cases, this simply means they put a leash on the dog and meander about as the dog decides where they should go based on the whims of his nose. When I walk my dog, we WALK. We usually do 2 hours at a time. Much of it uphill. I sweat like crazy. We only stop moving at red lights or to pee or poop. (She gets plenty of playtime and meandering/sniffing time during the day but walks are serious business.)
Granted, my dog is a working dog. I don't know what breed you have and I know you live in the heat and may not be able to be too active during the middle of the day but if you are not already following the pack walk rules, you should start now. Even little lap dogs can and should be walked like this. It's great for humans and dogs both. My dog's whole nature has changed for the better since I started following these simple guidelines.
I also know she will never be fat like her mama once was! (60+ pounds lost since September, 2008 with 20 or so more to go and still losing steadily. I don't know my exact pounds lost as I had to estimate my beginning weight because I was too ashamed to know to actual number once I hit 200 for the first time.)
Here's a link:
http://www.dogbreedinfo.com/articles/dogwalk.htm
I suggest you give the MWL plan a sincere, COMPLETELY COMPLIANT go for a specific period of time and see what happens. No beer, no little things, no little things that other people are eating, none of that.
Q: What do you have to lose?
A: Only the things you WANT to lose!