Expat in NZ - Awesome work adhering to the guidelines 100%, Lindsey! I think wanting to see our efforts reflected on the scale is a completely normal and understandable desire. Alas, the scale is a blunt instrument at best, and many positive developments go "unobserved" in the short-term, but become more and more apparent over time. Carry on with your excellent adherence, and the scale will "catch up" to all the "invisible" progress being made by and by. Remember, you are down 3.9 lbs so far this month, so right about a pound a week on average. Isn't it wonderful to be able to move through the world with no cravings! I can totally relate to the experience of looking around at calorie-rich processed items and realizing those no longer "look like food to me;" I feel exactly the same way.
On to the next week!
PonysPlants - 2 pounds is great! You ought to feel super pleased with that very nice reward for your diligent adherence! The upcoming "stumbling block" does seem like a somewhat uniquely challenging situation; if I were facing a similar circumstance, I would probably just make a point to eat in advance.
PonysPlants wrote:I’m going to have a nice time to celebrate my husband’s achievements and not let it stress me out or derail me for the rest of the week.
That seems like the most important thing!
Do the best you can, and know that a single hurdle (however you ultimately move through it) doesn't render a verdict on the rest of the week, nor all the days and weeks to come.
Abe - Nice progress with the 50/50 guideline! Have fun enjoying those long-awaited dumbbells! It's so interesting to see the diverse array of supply/demand issues brought about by the current pandemic. I can certainly understand how the amount of planning and preparation that goes into making this way of eating work can feel much less convenient than hitting a drive thru on the way home. Of course, the myriad benefits resulting from the recommended behaviors offer a sort of convenience of their own. Some of the
Birds Eye Steamfresh offerings might serve for an easy "grab and go" meal option.
JeffN wrote:Birdseye has 3 products that are like a McDougall Meal in a bag. They come frozen and you just heat and eat. There is nothing in them but whole grain brown rice, wild rice or potato and some veggies. No added salt, sugar, oil, fat or refined flour with a calorie density under 400 cal/lb
Here are the three options I found...
Birds Eye Steamfresh Mixtures Roasted Red Potato BlendBirds Eye Steamfresh Selects Brown & Wild Rice with Broccoli & Carrots
Birds Eye Steamfresh Selects Brown & Wild Rice with Corn, Carrots & Peas
It looks like the current rice offerings are
Whole Grain Rice with Corn, Carrots & Peas and
Whole Grain Rice with Broccoli & Carrots. I usually also have pretty good luck finding adherent options at Japanese and Chinese restaurants, and, somewhat ironically,
steakhouses.
mandybee - Down 3 lbs this week and 7 lbs so far this month! Fantastic result! Great work putting the recommended behaviors into action; you seem to be really figuring out how to make everything work within your own routine and context.
It also sounds like you are getting a real sense of what is "comfortably full" for you, and applying the 9th principle from the checklist appropriately. I believe many of us may relate to the experience you describe. I think often, particularly in the early days of "getting the hang" of MWL, we are very concerned about getting too hungry, and potentially going off plan and bingeing on troublesome foods. We might feel very protective about making sure we are quite full, and knowing exactly when and where our next meal is coming; that all makes a lot of sense, in a certain respect we are "crowding out" urges and anxieties around problematic foods. As we get our plans and routines figured out, and successfully practice the recommended pattern of behavior under a variety of different circumstances for a sufficient duration of time, we start to realize that we can handle most challenges that arise and we worry less about unintentionally getting off track.
mandybee wrote:Something I noticed while eating this week, I'm not fixated or obsessed about food like I had been. In fact, I almost forget about it until my body starts showing signs of hunger and then I eat when convenient. I have been eating very simply but the past 2 days, I couldn't believe how beyond satisfied I was. I hit a perfect balance so I made a note of exactly what I ate so I can replicate it because that combination really worked for me. I've heard people say repeatedly eating simply is the key. I feel like I'm noticing the least amount of frills I put into my meals the better. Makes it real easy to know when you are done eating.
This epiphany is what I'm referring to when I talk about things suddenly feeling "easy," and the sense of confidence and contentment that accompanies that. Enjoy the feeling!
And, protect it by maintaining the habits that delivered for you.
Wfpb2020 - Nice loss! Glad you are feeling and doing better! Big congratulations on being able to discontinue your BP medication! Definitely a big win worth taking a moment to recognize and salute!
oneesotericgirl - Congratulations on being down 4 lbs! Setbacks almost inevitably happen, and struggling through them, learning what we can, focusing on the things we can control, and getting back "on the wagon" are all important steps in the process of making this way of eating work. For many,
Mary's Mini can be a useful way to recalibrate your palate, develop an appreciation for simplicity, and generally "reset." Some find it especially useful after they have "fallen off the wagon;" so it makes sense for the situation you describe. That being said, I think it is important to keep the monthly weigh-in group focused specifically on MWL, so that all the participants are working toward the same set of behaviors and operating under the same guidelines.
Kirsty took a break from the group to do a Mary's Mini in August, so you might get some insights from
her journal, or some of the other
board members journals.
Kappagator_96 - Kudos on your loss! Solid, consistent adherence is definitely worthy of pride.
Longevity Soup is my favorite; you'll find many different
soups in the recipe section that should satisfy the MWL guidelines, as is or with minor adjustments.
Veganjo - Kudos for your loss! Since this group takes a behavioral approach to weight loss, taking a moment (at least weekly) to assess our pattern of behavior with the MWL 10-Point Checklist is an important part of the reporting process. Please do, at least briefly, review how things are going with the recommended behaviors, so that we can all stay on the same page.
jan_npr - Congrats on being down 2 lbs! Jeff covered the issues accompanying calorie counting in his response. If you, or other participants want to do some further reading on the topic,
How to Successfully Count Calories is the best article I've ever read on the subject.
NancyNancyR - That looks like a pretty solid week to me! Some cravings can endure for a surprising length of time (definitely annoying!
). Keep doing your best to practice the recommended behaviors, don't succumb to the cravings, and, eventually, they will expire. Keep in mind, too, that if it doesn't cause
uncontrollable cravings for you, a sprinkle of salt or sugar at the table is acceptable.
JeffN wrote:In regard to added salt and added sugar, we recommend buying and preparing food without either and if any are to be used, to add them at the table on the surface of the food. If either one is troublesome and create uncontrollable cravings for you, then leave them out.
If you feel better eliminating them completely, that is fine, as well.
CindyD - Goodbye to another 2.8 pounds! Cheers for "all systems go on the 10 points!"
I don't think the idea of drinking "steaming water" sounds crazy at all; on especially chilly days I sometimes do the same thing!
I steam vegetables in my Instant Pot nearly every day; more often than sipping a mug of the "stock," I pour it into a big container that I keep in the refrigerator, and that is what I use when a recipe calls for vegetable stock/broth - cheap, easy, and work's like a charm for me. Have a great week, and enjoy the "soup weather!"
Rebecka22 - Down 2 lbs! Great work "skipping" past those calorie rich "treats!" Having an adherent snack readily available can really be a big help; for the most lasting satiety, choose a snack that satisfies the 50/50 guideline.
JeffN wrote:slugmom wrote:So ... if optimizing weight loss is my goal ... and I'm legitimately hungry, or really munchy and want a snack ... which would be better? Popcorn? Fruit?
IMH(P&P)O, and based on calorie density, of the two, I would say fruit. However, vegetables would be a better choice and/or a meal of 50% starch and 50% vegetables (and/or fruit) by volume. A meal of 50% starch and 50% vegetables by volume would have a very low calorie density. So, a bowl of 50% oatmeal and 50% berries by volume or a bowl of 50% rice and 50% veggies by volume may be the better choice. You get the starch to help satisfy you and the fruit and/or veggies to help lower the calorie density.
Carry on with your diligent efforts!
curcubit - It sounds like now that you've exited those "food deserts" and settled back in at home, you are making a prompt return to the recommended pattern of behavior, and preparing appropriately. That direct, subjective experience with just how hard it can be to stay on track on the road is quite instructive, right? I think it can conjure a vivid picture of just how much effort has to be invested to remain adherent under those circumstances; if nothing else, seeing the direct effect of those "indiscretions" is useful, too. Nice work getting directly back into a routine that supports your goals.
chowbby - Wow! Big drop this week! Clearly you are making progress! Your observation about the importance of consistency is right on target; following the guidelines consistently over time, and trusting the process is what it is all about. That "celebration worthy platter" sounds fabulous!
connielovesdogs - Congratulations on a week absolutely free from the "latte monster!" I quite agree that it can be useful to take note of the effect that ~15% non adherent food can have, offering a real sense of how strict one might need to be to support ongoing progress. Increased stress rarely makes things easier; for me, it helps to focus my energy on the thing within my control: staying active, getting the food right, and (as you so rightfully mentioned) recognizing the many things for which I am grateful. Hang in there! The only forecast we can make with certainty is that things will, inevitably, change, right?
squealcat - Kudos for doing really well on 7/10 points! Something I've noticed is that challenges with #9 are often a direct result of points 5 & 7; higher fat and calorie dense foods lead to
overconsumption. As you describe, I found it necessary to put certain foods on the "never forever" list. For me, never taking the first bite was MUCH easier than trying to "treat myself" in moderation. I really enjoy some of the low-impact aerobics routines on YouTube. I also just ordered a
MagneTrainer, inspired by Jeff's post on
Staying in Shape when Sheltering at Home. Let me echo your closing sentiment - keep on showing up and doing your best - you'll get where you want to be in time.
Hope410 - Huzzah! Goodbye to 2.6 more lbs!
for adhering 100% to 8/10 points. As you aim for 10/10 next week, take a little time to brainstorm some ideas for how you might best incorporate exercise and ways you can support yourself in eliminating those remaining calorie dense foods (preparation is often key). I love doing some of the low-impact cardio routines to be found on YouTube.
rlechols - I honestly cannot remember the last time your week didn't go well, Rachel!
Each week seeming the same can be really nice when they are good weeks, right? Congratulations on your outstanding achievements and your well-deserved results. It has been my absolute pleasure having a front-row seat for this stretch of your journey. I wish you many more great weeks to come! I'm confident you "won't be back!"
laura_delao - Congrats on being down a pound in aggregate over the last 2 weeks! I'll record the loss and (tiny) gain in their respective weeks, for the sake of consistency. It appears you are doing an outstanding job adhering to the recommended pattern of behavior! It really is eye-opening to take a moment and reflect on previous patterns of behavior that we thought were "OK," as compared to the behaviors that best support lasting durable weight loss, right? Onward!
galoop - YAY for breaking your 3 week plateau! Because this group takes a behavioral approach to weight loss, taking a moment (at least weekly) to assess our pattern of behavior with the MWL 10-Point Checklist is an important part of the reporting process. Please do, at least briefly, review how things are going with the recommended behaviors, so that we can all stay on the same page.
GreenFroG - Down more than half a pound! I always love seeing 10 THUMBS-UP! I think you are doing great. Now might be the time to calmly think through how to best navigate the holiday season; with a little thought, planning and preparation it is definitely doable. Guard the groove!
wstokes - Cheers! Getting headed in the right direction is the first step toward forward progress, right? I think taking some time to plan and "nail down" how to support adherence to a particular behavior really is very helpful; the great thing is, generally, once you "solve" a particular point, it largely stays solved, provided the circumstances don't change dramatically. Go for it!
Dot - Hooray for another 10/10 week and congratulations on your impressive progress - 16 lbs since your start! Thank you for your very kind words! It is one of my great pleasures to be able to play "spectator" to the successes here!
wischbone - Kudos! Great work making progress, keep it up! Like you, I absolutely love Jeff's Longevity Soup, with beans and without; roasted vegetables are a perennial favorite in my house - YUM!
tinathescreamer - Hang in there! Fend off those cravings for sugary baked treats by eating the recommended foods, in the recommended fashion. How thrilling to have that group of acquaintances exclaiming over how well you look! I'm sure that was encouraging!