BambiS - I hope you were able to enjoy your vacation time; it certainly sounds like you did quite a lot of work during the week!
Keep working and aiming to steer back toward closer adherence, as that is the surest path to continue your progress. When we have a change in our daily routine, whether it is big or small, it can present obstacles and interfere with the pattern of behavior we want to maintain, but each time this happens it also gives us an opportunity to practice under shifting circumstances, adjust our preparations, and fortify our overall routine to be more resilient going forward.
carwex - Entertaining and socializing with family and friends can make for a fun, rewarding, and revitalizing week, right? At the same time, as you observed Carol, the task of navigating restaurant dining can often bring its own stresses and challenges, too. I'm glad you feel like you've found a living space that is right for you; I'm sure that comes as a huge relief. Wishing you the best with negotiating and bringing that to a satisfactory resolution. Getting back to the pool (and gym) sounds like fun! I think your friend's answer about getting back in shape "slowly" makes sense, and your inclination to start the process of habituating those daily physical activities so they require less active thought is right on target.
Onward!
Lizzy_F - I completely agree that time seems to be zipping forward! I would say that if your breakfast is roughly hitting the 50/50 between cooked oats and fruit it seems on track (particularly if you are still seeing satisfactory results); if you feel like you need to bolster your progress in that regard, you could always add in fruit (or vegetables) as a preload (or even just include that extra portion in your main "bowl"). In regard to feeling full and satisfied, and "enough" vs. "too much": for me, the key discriminating factor is feeling COMFORTABLE (comfortably full). Are you feeling physical sensations of being uncomfortable or stuffed? If not, I think you're doing fine. The key here isn't so much precisely monitoring and judging HOW MUCH we eat, but rather dialing down the calorie density as needed (through the application of the MWL principles) so that we can achieve our healthy weight. Wishing you continued improvement with the heel and knee issues.
Take care and carry on!
squealcat - You've made a great start back, Marilyn! I think you idea to try cucumbers and tomato for your dinner preload, so as not to get overfull and short change the starches, seems sensible, particularly as you are transitioning back into this overall pattern of behavior. Adherent hummus mixed with salsa sounds like it could be a yummy dressing; let us know what you think and how it works for you. Healthy, Happy, and Wise! What a great goal!
moonlight - I'm so excited that you'll be joining us again! I feel like we are old friends, going back to the days when Amy was stewarding us in the group.
VegSeekingFit - You've really been batting a thousand these past few weeks, Stephanie! That feeling of being free, calm and comfortable with our pattern of behavior is one of the very best ways to feel, right? Enjoy the gardening and hiking (and potatoes!)
louie3084 - Doing well for most of the week is pretty good though! It can take some time to get things figured out and dialed in, both in regard to the volume and proportion of food and the logistics of our routine. Experiment with adding in more starch at breakfast/lunch/dinner (particularly if these challenges seem to recur on a particular day or in a certain context). Give yourself time to adjust, build confidence in yourself and the program, and process through your fears. Your instinct to put the slip behind you and just get back on course is a sound one.
I've written some general posts about my own journey a few times in the past:
Here is my "Meet the Members" introduction (that is from before I developed CRPS/RSD, so a bit out of date, but it gives a sense of where I was early in my journey). I posted "Before & After" pics near the bottom of
this post.
Here is conversation where I get into more detail about my own experience. More recently I spoke about why I'm still strictly adhering to MWL in
this post. My
journal basically documents my daily process, as I was going through it day by day. Planning and lots of practice were the keys for me.
Rebecka22 - May your strike be successful and come to a favorable resolution for you and your comrades; it certainly does sound exhausting, especially with parenting on top of that!
Rebecka22 wrote:I have also realized that drinking a mocha seems to just lead to a waterfall of off plan choices, so I’m going to avoid that this week in hopes it will help.
That seems like a wise decision; I think having certain foods or beverages (or even other substances and activities) act as a "trigger" for a series of "exceptions" is a very common experience. I think you might also appreciate what Dr. Lisle has to say about "willpower" in
this video.
Rebecka22 wrote:I did plan and stick to all my own meals this week and skipped all the donated food
Good for you! That is a significant achievement!
Cheers for better days in front of us!
Ejg - Hi, Eric! I'm so glad you'll be joining us. Today is ALWAYS the best time to get on track!
Gimmelean - Woohoo! 10/10!
Heading back to the office after two and a half years definitely sounds like a change in routine that could present various challenges.
I think you are very wise to think through the potential hurdles, take possible challenges seriously, and plan ahead for how to succeed. Wising you all the best in that regard! It's a great opportunity to make your routine even more strong and durable, and to build confidence and further your sense of self-efficacy; a potential mastery experience in your future.
Noella - I'm happy to hear that your rash resolved! If it was food-related, sometimes after a period of elimination, people have been able to successfully reintroduce some of the formerly offending foods. There is great information in
this thread about the elimination diet. I'm sure it was wonderful to see your daughters and grandchildren! It can really be challenging to negotiate and navigate our interactions with loved ones who don't practice (or really understand) this way of eating; we want to express our needs and preferences, but we also want to safeguard and maintain our warm and loving relationships, right? I can understand your impetus to try raising the issue with them gently while still being flexible. You never know which conversation might be the one that finally clicks, and leads to a revelation. I hope you have a marvelous time at the seaside; long walks by the water sound divine! Enjoy!
JaBee - While points 5 and 7 remain a struggle, you seem to be doing great on 7/10 checklist items, so kudos for that! You are absolutely right that the ongoing presence of tempting non adherent items in our immediate environment has a very powerful effect and is a key challenge. It can be an especially tough situation when our cohabitants' preferences, habits and beliefs perhaps conflict with the environment we'd prefer to maintain and the pattern of behavior to which we aspire. Do you feel like this is a topic you could have an open, amenable conversation about in your home? Neither my wife nor my daughter practice this way of eating (although they are generally willing to eat what I cook), so our house has all sorts of non adherent foods present, and they aren't willing to compromise much on that. What they HAVE BEEN willing to do is avoid bringing home the specific foods that I've found to be most challenging to my adherence (which for me, were really just a handful of particular things). I've been pretty successful mentally categorizing most of the more calorie rich stuff in our home as "not food" (at least not food for me). For some people, even just getting the most tempting things out of the kitchen and into a different space, or making them harder to access can really help. Likewise, putting all sorts of appealing, adherent options in closer proximity so they are much easier to reach toward is useful, too. This can be a really tough puzzle to assemble. I'm sure you'll approach it with thought, consideration and empathy (for others, but for yourself, as well).
Drew*# - Glad you are finding adjusting to the braces less challenging! You are so right that keeping things simple, with a focus on what fits the plan and is EASY promotes success.
You made further progress toward closer adherence this week, keep building on that.