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jamietwo wrote:I wouldn't rush into having children with the man! Compromise is well and good, but if you have such different beliefs on what is healthy for your children and your husband doesn't respect your beliefs (his insisting on feeding your children meat and dairy is not respecting your beliefs), that's a pretty big stumbling block.
Jenna wrote:Speaking from, if your husband is eating it, eventually your kids will want to eat it, too. Unless there is a reason for avoiding it that will motivate your child(ren), it will be very hard to keep away. For example, my oldest is allergic to peanut butter. When he eats it, he gets a painful rash around his mouth and hives. So when he wants peanut butter, I can explain what will happen and he's okay with not eating it.
My husband pretty much eats SAD (a more whole foods version, but still pretty close to SAD), but about 90% of the time, the kids eat what I eat or what I feed them because I am with them more, and I pack their lunches, etc. Anyway, I think 90% is pretty good, and with kids, there always has to be some compromise, birthday parties, holidays, etc. Or if you keep them on a really special diet, they feel really weird. We try to live somewhere in the middle.
Last thing I wanted to mention is that I nursed my oldest until he was 2.5, and he hates cow milk. So you could use extended nursing to put off dairy consumption, and maybe (s)he won't even like it.
It sounds like you will both be thoughtful and excellent parents!
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