by Birdy » Thu Jun 24, 2010 9:59 am
This morning I'm musing on why this diet is so difficult for me. I know I'm not alone and venture to guess there are quite a few people who visit this board who also have the same challenge. Maybe it's just "hard to teach an old dog new tricks" but I don't think so because a poll on the Lounge shows that the majority of people here who are eating low fat plant based are in their 50s. There's a litany of reasons why this is difficult to do: society, family & friends, habit, self control, mind set. One particular obstacle for me is that I love to cook and enjoy the variety of recipes using all kinds of ingredients, not just low- or non-fat vegan. It's the sense of limitation that is difficult, the sense of having to constantly be vigilant about food choices. It's denial of reality about food choices and health consequences. And, yes, there's also the form of denial that is a little voice saying, "People have been eating meat for 1,000s of years. How can this diet be right?" That's probably the most undermining thought of all, and despite all I've read, listened to and learned about vegan diets, a core part of me just doesn't believe in it. "You won't get your omega-3s, or enough zinc," or "So and so lived to be 90 and they ate meat," or any of the thoughts/beliefs we all are subject to.
Ultimately, for me, the one solid rock in being vegan is compassion for other creatures, especially those raised for food. I have to ask myself whether I want to participate in consuming other creatures or products from other creatures, such as cheese & eggs for example, that involve the misuse and ultimate slaughter of animals. I've learned enough to know that even the best raised animals ("organic free range") are still being used and still being killed in order for us to eat them. They are never free; they are not living wild. They never have a chance because we are preying upon them. Do I want to participate in this? No. Have I participated right up to today? Yes. So why the disconnect? Appetite. Habit. Cultural traditions. Eons of humans eating other creatures in the natural order of things. It's not the predatory aspect even that bothers me - there are predators and prey throughout all of nature. It's the way in which we now obtain our animal food by basically imprisoning them, taking their babies away, manipulating their very bodies, and then killing them in slaughterhouses.
I once crossed paths with a cow whose baby had died in a ravine near my house. This mother was so distraught she'd gotten herself down in the ravine and would not come out. The farmer couldn't get his equipment down in there to get her out either. So she just lay down there crying for her baby and later died herself. I saw this with my own eyes. I've also seen other things first hand with animals where I know they are sentient, as Peter Singer so eloquently speaks and writes about.
It occurs to me that, even though I do want to lose weight and do need to bring down cholesterol, triglycerides, etc. and blood pressure, I am not motivated enough to be vegan for myself, for my own health. Am I motivated enough to be vegan for the sake of the creatures we eat?
The reason the journalling hasn't helped me is because all of us on this board, with the exception of the environmental thread, focus mainly on ourselves - our health, our weight. And that doesn't apparently motivate me deeply enough to change. So I'm going to shift my focus to the creatures themselves as my true motivation for being vegan and see if that doesn't help me make a true and lasting change. If you're still reading, thanks for "listening."
"The program is essentially cost and risk free." ~ Dr. John McDougall