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VegSeekingFit wrote:Hi Starflower!!!
Hope that you are doing amazing!!!
I love ❤️what you mentioned a couple of posts back about making this way of eating a natural part of life being the most important thing. Yes!!!
Wishing you an amazing week!!
Best,
Stephanie
VegSeekingFit wrote:Hi Starflower!!!
Great way of looking at things... From your comment above: "Learning what doesn't work for me brings me one step closer to what will. Patience." I ❤️ this!!!
Good job steering clear of the higher fat foods --- I need to do this too --- personally have no "off" switch!! HA!!
Wishing you fantastic week!!!
Take care,
Stephanie
wildgoose wrote:For me, adherence fatigue and decision fatigue go together. Minimize one, you minimize the other. I thought about this when yesterday didn’t go so well.
A tradesperson who had been scheduled for day before yesterday didn’t show up on that day, but he arrived unexpectedly yesterday. That pushed back all of my plans for the day (and I am notf good with having my plans changed at short notice). Hence I was a grumpy Goose by late afternoon, with chores undone because of the change in plans, rushing to get the bathroom cleaned (another of my least-favorite chores) before the end of the day. I was tired and cranky, with a sore back and nothing planned for supper — an open invitation to the little imp on my shoulder to say "oh, just order from [fast food place that delivers] and be done with it."
Now I had a Decision to make: plan and cook supper, or order in? Reaching for the app on my phone would have been easy, but… I had deleted the app for that fast food place, and for the delivery service, months ago. So I achieved one objective, make the bad decision harder. That gave me just enough time to engage the rational part of my brain and figure out a fast, minimal-work, healthy supper. However, I was still grumpy and still thinking in the back of my mind how much better that unhealthy fast food might have tasted. That’s adherence fatigue.
Today will be better. I cut the decision process way down. Made a SNAP meal (beans, brown rice, tomatoes, onions, broccoli, garlic) and divided it into microwaveable dishes. Cleaned and prepped a fruit mixture for dessert. Voila, supper solved. No decision fatigue, because there’s no decision to be made. Minimal adherence fatigue, because there’s no residue from a potentially bad decision cluttering up my brain. Simple, straightforward, stress-free compliance. With the added advantage that tomorrow is taken care of too, because SNAP meals make lots of leftovers.
None of this is new. It’s the same advice that’s been posted here over and over. Figure out what MWL food you like, learn simple techniques for cooking it, plan, and keep a clean environment as much as possible. Make the right decisions easy, make the wrong decisions hard. And minimize the amount of decisions you have to make. Get in a deep grove and stay there. If you stray, get back on track right away, without drama. Make adherence automatic. Thinking about too many options tires your brain, so structure your adherent life so you’re thinking far more about life than about adherence.
All of this develops over time, of course. And time is cumulative, even if it’s not consecutive (so if I have a less-than-ideal day yesterday, I have a better day today, and even my worst days now are immeasurably better than the "normal" days I was having years ago).
Goose
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