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Noella wrote:Hi Wild Goose, Thank you so much for being here with us this week while Mark is on vacation. I’m wondering if you have any insightful information or encouragement to share about losing weight as we get close to achieving a healthy size, but still have a few stubborn pounds to go. What extra challenges can we expect to experience and what might the timeline to look like? I want to have realistic expectations during the weeks and months ahead and can’t wait to get to my goal weight.
wildgoose wrote:Noella wrote:Hi Wild Goose, Thank you so much for being here with us this week while Mark is on vacation. I’m wondering if you have any insightful information or encouragement to share about losing weight as we get close to achieving a healthy size, but still have a few stubborn pounds to go. What extra challenges can we expect to experience and what might the timeline to look like? I want to have realistic expectations during the weeks and months ahead and can’t wait to get to my goal weight.
I don't know about insightful, Noella, but I can tell you what it was like for me. And of course, since I'm a gabby Goose, once I get started, this turns into a very long post!
A bit of background on me:I kept a journal of everything I ate, the exercise I did or didn't do (to be honest, almost all the latter), how I felt, how my clothes fit. I didn't take "before" pictures, which I probably should have, but I have lots of pictures from along the way in my journal. I weighed daily. That's not recommended, and the fluctuations drove me nuts, but I also kept a rolling average that was a much more realistic assessment of how I was doing.
- Age: 65
- Gender: female
- Height: used to be 5'11.5", now probably closer to 5'10.5"
- Weight: as of today, 135.6. I try to maintain between 135 and 138
- Highest weight: 237, in about 2002. I got down to 160, back up to 200, then back and forth between 160 and 200 for years before I did MWL in earnest.
- Started MWL seriously: mid-March 2019, at 190 lb.
- Stabilized at my current weight (135-138): end of November 2019
- Current BMI: 19.2
- BMI when at the top of my maintenance weight range (138): 19.5
I checked back in my journal to see how the last "stubborn" pounds came off. I got to 150 the middle of August. I hadn't been below 150 for a long time, if ever, in my adult life. I had lost 40 pounds since I started MWL, and I was really happy with that.
The middle of September, I was 146. What??? Only four pounds in a month? Yes, that's right. It can happen. This is where the realistic expectations have to come in. Believe me, I wasn't happy as I was writing that in my journal.
The temptation, when weight loss slows down that much, is to try something drastic to "kick start" your weight loss. This is where people start to look at unsustainable options. Fasting. Intermittent fasting. Lots of exercise. Raw food diets. Even, heaven forbid, keto. Don't do it!
I didn't do anything different. Maybe upped my vegetable-starch ratio a little, but nothing that would take me out of what I thought I could permanently sustain. This is key, I think. Don't make a change that you wouldn't be willing to live with for the rest of your life, just to blast off a few pounds. Remember, weight is equilibrium between body and eating. You can change the eating side of the equation drastically to get your weight down, but if you don't sustain it, the equilibrium point shifts back upwards as your eating changes back to what it was. This is why people regain lost weight!
My mid-October weight was 140. So a 6-pound loss from mid-September to mid-October. Not bad -- I was pretty pleased with that. A far cry from the early days when I was trying (unrealistically) to lose 4-6 pounds a week. I'm sure people here can identify with that.
Mid-November weight was going back and forth between 137 and 138. This is the problem with weighing every day. But I was averaging about 137.5. I was really getting close to where I was going to end up, and I was slowing down even more. 2.5 pounds in that month's time.
Thanksgiving, 136.6. End of November, 135.8, and I called it done. As you can see, I've maintained it for 20.5 months. Two solid years this fall, which I'm confident I can achieve easily.
Some things to remember if you're trying to apply my experience to yours. I'm tall. I'm broad-shouldered but not terribly big-boned. Still, I'm going to have an easier time losing weight than someone who is 5 feet tall and small-framed, especially at the end (but a harder time than a 6-foot-3 muscular male -- it's just the way it is). Noella, you're 5'9", so your experience may be closer to mine, but it might not be.
I don't exercise. I should. I know I should. I try, then I crash and burn. I hate it. I especially hate it in the heat, so I don't even want to think about it in August in central Illinois. I won't go to a gym -- even pre-COVID I had no interest in exercising at a gym. I have injuries and physical issues that make exercise difficult, but that's really no excuse. I'm just a slug -- I admit it. All of this is to say that my weight loss was achieved 99% through diet alone. Not optimal, and I wish I could say that I adhered to Checklist point #10, but I didn't.
I never eat out. It's just how we are. We don't like restaurants. Even before COVID. I used to do more take-out, but I stopped that when I started MWL. I've had one take-out meal in the past year and a half, and that was out of necessity. I know others who eat out regularly and really struggle with weight maintenance.
I'm introverted. So is the Gander. What that means is, we don't socialize much. It's a big help for weight loss and maintenance if you don't ever see a potluck or an invitation to dinner. We're retired, so we don't have social obligations at work. A huge advantage, and one I know that others aren't so lucky to have.
I try to always have food on hand. Brown rice, potatoes, sweet potatoes, already cooked and stored in the fridge. Tons of frozen veggies in the freezer. We put up 80-100 pounds of fresh blueberries every year, so we have high quality frozen berries for oatmeal all year round. I stockpile beans, lentils, rice, and other staples so I never run out.
I have a Gander who is totally supportive. He eats this way much of the time. In fact, I have a hard time keeping weight on him because of the way we eat (he's genetically rail-thin). He eats lots of bread and muffins, the occasional pizza, nuts, and a few other higher-calorie-density foods. But he's completely supportive of how I eat and what I need to do to keep temptation at bay. I'm so lucky, and I know it. Keeping a clean environment goes hand in hand with having compliant food prepared and ready as what I think are the two most important factors for success.
But my answer to your question of how to get the last few stubborn pounds off is this: stay the course. Keep with the Checklist until you know you've hit equilibrium (steady weight for 2-3 months). Then re-evaluate. You'll have two choices. Shift the average overall calorie density of what you're eating slightly downward (or eliminate any potentially troublesome foods -- I had to look at some condiments and those pesky rice cakes which I knew weren't MWL but I thought I could "handle"!). Or re-evaluate your goal weight. Can you live with 5 more pounds than you might have planned for, to be able to eat just the way you're eating now?
Hope that helps. Also, here are a couple of general ideas for you and anyone else who's reading this. Stay with this board as long as you want. I think there's a lot of encouragement to be found here (I can't say enough about the terrific job that Mark is doing), along with inspiration from the stories of others. There's also a Maintenance thread under "Testimonials and Success Stories" that doesn't get nearly enough activity, but which I think could be a big help once you're at that stage. I'm happy to answer any questions you have, as are many of the other "old-timers" on the various Forum boards, many of whom have lots more experience and more dramatic stories than I do!
You might also want to take a look at some of the journals over on the "My Daily Menus and Journals" board, and to read the Star McDougaller stories or watch the videos on that section of the main website. This community is a wealth of resources, almost all of it available for free (for which I again thank Dr. McDougall, Heather McDougall, and Jeff Novick, along with countless people working behind the scenes).
Goose
Noella wrote:VegSeekingFit wrote:
…I am feeling "locked-in" for breakfast (salad, fruit, potato waffle made in George Foreman grill)... I make it on auto-pilot and am very happy with this meal!!
My yoga pants are getting loose !!
Hope that everyone has a great week!!! I feel so gratified to read everyone's experiences and learn from all who participates on this thread... so, YAY to you all!! Thank you!!!
Best,
Stephanie
Hi Stephanie,
Sounds like you are doing great! I would love to know how you make potato waffles.
Noella
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